Everyone loves to point out how stay-at-home parents get screwed in divorce (including me). And yes, that’s true. But let’s talk about the other side of the coin: the spouse who worked their ass off to keep the lights on. The one who sacrificed sleep, weekends, and family dinners because someone had to keep the paychecks coming.

The Pressure No One Talks About
Being the breadwinner isn’t just a steady stream of promotions and pats on the back. It’s living under constant pressure to perform, year after year, because your entire family depends on it. It’s missing your kid’s soccer game because a client demanded a last-minute meeting. It’s taking a red-eye flight for work and rolling straight into a parent-teacher conference half-awake. It’s the 2 a.m. email grind because the deal won’t close itself. I know – I have been there myself!
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