Jessica believed her husband could be reasonable during their divorce, even after years of emotional abuse and threats of physical harm. She agreed to mediation, hoping for a peaceful resolution. But as the months passed, mediation stalled. Her husband stopped responding. Then came the ambush: a massive court motion filled with lies. He accused her of being unstable, got her removed from the family home, and even secured a temporary order keeping her from their children.
It took Jessica months of litigation to undo the damage. And she’s not alone in falling for this litigation strategy.
Jessica was divorcing a narcissist. She believed his promises to settle fairly, while he was quietly building a false narrative to destroy her. If this feels familiar, you’re not crazy, and you’re not alone. Divorcing a narcissist requires a different strategy altogether.
Divorce is hard, there’s no sugarcoating it. It can feel like your entire world is falling apart while you’re expected to make huge decisions about your finances, your children, and your future. You’re overwhelmed, angry, and unsure of what comes next.
I help people move from that place of fear and confusion to one of clarity, confidence, and control.
Because here’s the truth: divorce isn’t just about splitting assets or signing paperwork. It’s about protecting your peace, your kids, and your long-term future. It’s about making smart, informed decisions at a time when you may feel emotionally exhausted and uncertain.
Most people don’t realize they have options. That they don’t have to give up everything or go to war just to get through it. And most importantly, they don’t realize that they can come out the other side feeling good. Yes, good. Empowered. Free. Even excited about what’s next.
That’s where I come in.
You don’t need a “shark” attorney who promises to destroy your ex and burn everything down in the process. You need a strategist. Someone who listens. Someone who sees the full board and plans five moves ahead. Someone who knows when to fight and when to negotiate for a better, smarter outcome.
Divorce is personal. Your lawyer should treat it that way. I believe in giving clients honest advice, clear direction, and powerful advocacy without fueling unnecessary conflict. I’m here to make sure you don’t just survive this process, but that you move forward with your head high and your future intact.
So if you’re feeling lost or stuck, just know: you’re not alone. And you don’t have to figure it out on your own.
If you’re ready to turn the page, I’ve got you. With smart strategy, grounded support, and a legal game plan built around your goals, not anyone else’s drama.
Let’s get to work. Let’s move forward. Let’s rebuild stronger than before.
When Janet told her husband Matt that she wanted a divorce, he ignored her. A few weeks later, a process server showed up at the door and handed him papers marked “divorce summons.” That’s when Matt realized she was serious. Despite Janet’s efforts to let Matt know her feelings, he still expressed shock and resentment. This set the stage for a very bitter contested divorce.
Most people are uncomfortable with conflict. But you cannot afford to “ghost” out of a marriage when you have kids and property to divide. If you haven’t told your spouse you are unhappy, the news of a divorce will be even more devastating to them. So how can you avoid surprising your spouse and set the stage for a “friendly” divorce (if at all possible)? Here are a few tips to approach the divorce conversation with that goal in mind: Continue reading “5 Tips On How To Tell Your Spouse You Want A Divorce And Not Hate Each Other”→
Believe it or not, many people live together during the divorce process. Here’s one tip you can use to make things a bit easier if you are focused on an amicable divorce.
The Divorce Artist™️ 