Category: Legal Fees

Why a Quickie Divorce in NYC Could Cost You Big Later

Why a Quickie Divorce in NYC Could Cost You Big Later

In New York, we want things to move fast: cabs, Seamless deliveries, information, and yes, even divorces. The city that never sleeps does not have the patience for endless waiting. But here’s the catch: when it comes to divorce, “fast and cheap” often turns into “messy and expensive.”

The Lure of the Quick Divorce

If you Google “cheap NYC divorce,” you’ll get pages of ads promising uncontested divorces filed in days, “no lawyers required,” all for the low low-cost of a couple of cocktails in Soho. Tempting, right? Why spend thousands on attorneys when you and your spouse can sign a few papers, call it quits, and get back to your lives?

But life — and divorce — is rarely that simple.

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🚩 Six Red Flags That Scream “Run!”

🚩 Six Red Flags That Scream “Run!”

We’ve all been there: swept up in the thrill of new romance, convinced that butterflies equal destiny, so caught up in the excitement that we ignore our gut. You’re texting nonstop, overlooking the little red flags, and telling yourself, “This time is different.” But your gut is smarter than your heart. When your instincts start whispering, listen — because those whispers often turn into court filings down the road.

If you see these signs, it’s not love, it’s a warning:

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Nicole Kidman’s Divorce: What High-Profile Splits Teach the Rest of Us

Nicole Kidman’s Divorce: What High-Profile Splits Teach the Rest of Us

Nicole Kidman has filed for divorce from country star Keith Urban after 19 years of marriage, and the headlines are everywhere. It’s not just Hollywood gossip, it’s a case study in what happens when love, lifestyle, and law collide at the highest level.

A Marriage in the Spotlight

The couple married in 2006 and built nearly two decades together, raising two daughters along the way. On the surface, it looked like one of the rare celebrity marriages that beat the odds. But in recent months, cracks appeared. Reports suggest Keith moved out earlier this summer, and while Nicole fought to save the marriage, she officially filed for divorce at the end of September.

Nineteen years is a long marriage in any world, but especially in Hollywood. And while we can all sigh over another “happily ever after” that didn’t last, what’s more interesting to me as a divorce lawyer is what’s at stake when marriages of this scale unravel.

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The Myth of 50/50: How Divorce Courts Shortchange Stay-at-Home Parents

The Myth of 50/50: How Divorce Courts Shortchange Stay-at-Home Parents

On paper, “splitting everything 50/50” sounds fair. Equal shares, equal rights, clean break. But here’s the ugly truth: a 50/50 split often leaves stay-at-home parents at a massive disadvantage.

Why? Because money in divorce isn’t just about the snapshot of today’s bank balance. It’s about how those numbers got there, and where they’re headed.

Within the last few years, a Spanish court awarded €204,624.86 (approx. $215,664 USD) plus a €500/month annuity to a homemaker for 25 years of exclusive domestic labor, breaking new legal ground in recognizing that such unpaid labor entitles financial compensation, even under a separation-of-property marriage regime.

This discussion should be required reading for any spouse or parent thinking of “staying home” or stepping back from their career during a marriage. Here in New York, there is very little return-on-investment for that sacrifice, and a court isn’t going to compensate for the lost time and future career setbacks.

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