High Net Worth, High Stakes: How NYC Courts Handle Divorce with Million-Dollar Assets

High Net Worth, High Stakes: How NYC Courts Handle Divorce with Million-Dollar Assets

A break down of equitable distribution in cases involving brownstones, co-ops, startups, and Wall Street bonuses.

Divorce is never simple, but in New York City, it can become extraordinarily complicated when millions of dollars are on the line. This is a city of brownstones worth more than most people’s lifetime earnings, Wall Street bonuses that rival lottery wins, and startups where today’s idea might be tomorrow’s IPO. When those assets are part of a marriage, the process of dividing them is anything but straightforward.

Equitable Distribution: What It Really Means

New York is an equitable distribution state. That means marital property is divided fairly, but not necessarily equally, when a couple divorces. Marital property generally includes assets acquired during the marriage, regardless of whose name is on the title. Separate property, on the other hand, usually refers to assets owned before the marriage, inheritances, or gifts made to one spouse individually.

But when millions are at stake, the line between marital and separate property often blurs. Appreciation on a premarital asset, contributions from a spouse’s labor, or the use of marital funds to maintain or improve property can transform what looks like separate property into something that’s at least partly marital. That’s where the litigation begins.

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Modern Prenups: When Business, Bonus Clauses, and Real Life Collide

Modern Prenups: When Business, Bonus Clauses, and Real Life Collide

Prenups aren’t just about protecting money anymore: they’re about defining fairness. As modern marriages evolve, so do the agreements that precede them. Today’s high-net-worth couples are finding creative ways to address issues that traditional prenuptial language never imagined: business growth, phantom equity, and even “milestone” payments tied to time, children, or success.

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Maintenance in Manhattan: When Does Lifestyle Matter More Than Income?

Maintenance in Manhattan: When Does Lifestyle Matter More Than Income?

Divorce in New York isn’t just about dividing property: it’s also about figuring out whether one spouse owes the other ongoing support, known here as maintenance (what people in other states call “alimony”). And in Manhattan, where lifestyles can include doormen, Hamptons shares, and $150 spin classes before breakfast, maintenance awards aren’t always driven by numbers on a W-2. Sometimes, they’re driven by lifestyle.

So when does lifestyle matter more than income? The answer is: when the standard of living during the marriage creates expectations the law is designed to protect, especially in marriages with big disparities in earnings. Let’s talk about it:

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Alimony & Child Support in New York: Why the Math Matters

Alimony & Child Support in New York: Why the Math Matters

Alimony? Child support? Income caps? If your eyes glaze over when divorce finances come up, this post is your no-nonsense crash course. People hate math, but they love money. And nothing proves it more than a divorce consult. The minute I start talking about support numbers, everyone suddenly becomes a “math expert.” Spreadsheets appear, calculators come out, and suddenly it’s all about the formulas.

But here’s the truth: support in New York is part math, part strategy.

In this blog, I cover the basics, run the numbers, and show you how people actually negotiate support in real life. Spousal maintenance and child support can make or break a divorce settlement. This post demystifies New York’s latest support laws, complete with updated 2025 caps, sample calculations, and smart strategies for high earners, caregivers, and everyone in between.

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