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Child Support issues in New York.

Alimony & Child Support in New York: Why the Math Matters

Alimony & Child Support in New York: Why the Math Matters

Alimony? Child support? Income caps? If your eyes glaze over when divorce finances come up, this post is your no-nonsense crash course. People hate math, but they love money. And nothing proves it more than a divorce consult. The minute I start talking about support numbers, everyone suddenly becomes a “math expert.” Spreadsheets appear, calculators come out, and suddenly it’s all about the formulas.

But here’s the truth: support in New York is part math, part strategy.

In this blog, I cover the basics, run the numbers, and show you how people actually negotiate support in real life. Spousal maintenance and child support can make or break a divorce settlement. This post demystifies New York’s latest support laws, complete with updated 2025 caps, sample calculations, and smart strategies for high earners, caregivers, and everyone in between.

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Divorce by the Numbers: Why Your Calculator Is Smarter Than Your Emotions

Divorce by the Numbers: Why Your Calculator Is Smarter Than Your Emotions

Mark was stuck.

His wife wanted the co-op apartment in their divorce, and deep down, he agreed she should have it. His friends — and even a few lawyers — told him he was crazy to give up both the apartment and pay alimony. At our next meeting, I introduced Mark to his new best friend in divorce negotiations: a calculator.

“When you break down the tax benefits and factor in the capital gains you’d avoid by not selling the apartment, you’re actually losing money,” I said. The calculator agreed.

Once we modeled out best-case and worst-case litigation scenarios, reviewed his retirement accounts, and assessed potential buyout costs, Mark had a choice: fight over the apartment and spend $175,000 in legal fees, or settle quickly and strategically. He took our estimates to a CPA and real estate agent, and (armed with real numbers) finally saw the bigger picture.

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Fighting for Fatherhood: 5 Key Custody Tips for Involved Dads

Fighting for Fatherhood: 5 Key Custody Tips for Involved Dads

What Every Hands-On Dad Needs to Know

Active, involved dads often face an uphill battle in custody disputes. This article outlines five key strategies for fathers heading into court. You’re not just a weekend dad or second string. You’re a fully engaged, emotionally invested parent, handling tantrums, homework, doctor visits, and bedtime routines. But when divorce turns into a custody battle, even the most involved fathers can feel sidelined. Smart preparation and strategic thinking can help fathers protect their role and stay closely connected to their children.

Here’s what every active dad should know before stepping into family court:

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Red flag spotting and Relationship Karma

The real problem is that red flags can turn into devastating disasters when you don’t heed them.

Sometimes we are so intrigued by a relationship that we ignore that nagging feeling that something is off. Usually that feeling is your gut, warning you about a red flag. Here are six serious red flags that you shouldn’t stay in the relationship:

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