Let’s get this out of the way up front: every married woman should have at least $5,000 in a bank account that’s hers alone: full stop.
Now before anyone starts clutching pearls or calling this marital betrayal, let’s be clear: I’m not saying the account has to be a secret (though for some women, it probably should be). And I’m certainly not suggesting you stop caring about your partner’s feelings, as healthy relationships are built on openness and mutual respect.
But having your own money is part of being an adult. It’s not about prepping for divorce (though we’ll get to that). It’s about independence, protection, and peace of mind.
Because here’s the reality: life happens. And life is messy.
Divorce is hard, there’s no sugarcoating it. It can feel like your entire world is falling apart while you’re expected to make huge decisions about your finances, your children, and your future. You’re overwhelmed, angry, and unsure of what comes next.
I help people move from that place of fear and confusion to one of clarity, confidence, and control.
Because here’s the truth: divorce isn’t just about splitting assets or signing paperwork. It’s about protecting your peace, your kids, and your long-term future. It’s about making smart, informed decisions at a time when you may feel emotionally exhausted and uncertain.
Most people don’t realize they have options. That they don’t have to give up everything or go to war just to get through it. And most importantly, they don’t realize that they can come out the other side feeling good. Yes, good. Empowered. Free. Even excited about what’s next.
That’s where I come in.
You don’t need a “shark” attorney who promises to destroy your ex and burn everything down in the process. You need a strategist. Someone who listens. Someone who sees the full board and plans five moves ahead. Someone who knows when to fight and when to negotiate for a better, smarter outcome.
Divorce is personal. Your lawyer should treat it that way. I believe in giving clients honest advice, clear direction, and powerful advocacy without fueling unnecessary conflict. I’m here to make sure you don’t just survive this process, but that you move forward with your head high and your future intact.
So if you’re feeling lost or stuck, just know: you’re not alone. And you don’t have to figure it out on your own.
If you’re ready to turn the page, I’ve got you. With smart strategy, grounded support, and a legal game plan built around your goals, not anyone else’s drama.
Let’s get to work. Let’s move forward. Let’s rebuild stronger than before.
The Legal Mess Behind Andy Byron’s Coldplay Kiss Cam Moment
File this under: “Things You Didn’t Expect a Tech CEO To Do in Q3.”
Andy Byron, until recently the CEO of data firm Astronomer, went to a Coldplay concert. The kiss cam landed on him and Astronomer’s head of HR, Kristin Cabot. They did not kiss, but they did look extremely uncomfortable. The moment was captured, posted, reposted, and instantly went viral.
Byron, who resigned shortly after the kiss cam clip caught fire, is reportedly considering legal action against Coldplay and the event organizers. The alleged basis? Emotional distress, defamation, and invasion of privacy.
As a lawyer, let me be clear: this case isn’t just weak, it’s practically begging to be thrown out in a footnote. And, if Byron really wants this to blow over quickly, suing a global pop band is certainly… not that. Let’s break it down:
Let’s talk tea: did you know that adultery is still a crime in the state of New York? That’s right! Technically the legislature left cheating as a crime on the books here in the Big Apple.