His wife wanted the co-op apartment in their divorce, and deep down, he agreed she should have it. His friends — and even a few lawyers — told him he was crazy to give up both the apartment and pay alimony. At our next meeting, I introduced Mark to his new best friend in divorce negotiations: a calculator.
“When you break down the tax benefits and factor in the capital gains you’d avoid by not selling the apartment, you’re actually losing money,” I said. The calculator agreed.
Once we modeled out best-case and worst-case litigation scenarios, reviewed his retirement accounts, and assessed potential buyout costs, Mark had a choice: fight over the apartment and spend $175,000 in legal fees, or settle quickly and strategically. He took our estimates to a CPA and real estate agent, and (armed with real numbers) finally saw the bigger picture.
Divorce is hard, there’s no sugarcoating it. It can feel like your entire world is falling apart while you’re expected to make huge decisions about your finances, your children, and your future. You’re overwhelmed, angry, and unsure of what comes next.
I help people move from that place of fear and confusion to one of clarity, confidence, and control.
Because here’s the truth: divorce isn’t just about splitting assets or signing paperwork. It’s about protecting your peace, your kids, and your long-term future. It’s about making smart, informed decisions at a time when you may feel emotionally exhausted and uncertain.
Most people don’t realize they have options. That they don’t have to give up everything or go to war just to get through it. And most importantly, they don’t realize that they can come out the other side feeling good. Yes, good. Empowered. Free. Even excited about what’s next.
That’s where I come in.
You don’t need a “shark” attorney who promises to destroy your ex and burn everything down in the process. You need a strategist. Someone who listens. Someone who sees the full board and plans five moves ahead. Someone who knows when to fight and when to negotiate for a better, smarter outcome.
Divorce is personal. Your lawyer should treat it that way. I believe in giving clients honest advice, clear direction, and powerful advocacy without fueling unnecessary conflict. I’m here to make sure you don’t just survive this process, but that you move forward with your head high and your future intact.
So if you’re feeling lost or stuck, just know: you’re not alone. And you don’t have to figure it out on your own.
If you’re ready to turn the page, I’ve got you. With smart strategy, grounded support, and a legal game plan built around your goals, not anyone else’s drama.
Let’s get to work. Let’s move forward. Let’s rebuild stronger than before.
The real problem is that red flags can turn into devastating disasters when you don’t heed them.
Sometimes we are so intrigued by a relationship that we ignore that nagging feeling that something is off. Usually that feeling is your gut, warning you about a red flag. Here are six serious red flags that you shouldn’t stay in the relationship:
Have you ever suspected your partner of financial two-timing?
According to CreditCards.com’s latest financial infidelity poll, 44% of those surveyed are hiding a checking, savings or credit card account from their partner, have secret debt or are spending more than their partner would think was OK.
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